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Bringing you the 11 top toxic traits that are common among people, surrounding yourself with people having these toxic traits not only drains your energy but also causes a lot of stress, these people show traits and behavior patterns that can be harmful to themselves and others around them. Remember, nobody is perfect, but everyone can work on themselves to improve their personality which will help them build a good relationship and well-being. They will make you want to move to a deserted island, a place where they cannot cause any trouble to you. Here is the list of top toxic traits that I have seen in people from my experience:
Top 11 common toxic traits:
1) Causing arguments on purpose:
Imagine someone becoming angry because you shared your movie review from last night. They start arguing about why the movie isn’t good and how you wasted your time and money. In this situation, you have two options: ignore them or engage in a lengthy argument, justifying your perspective Now, It’s a delicate balance between preserving your peace of mind and deciding whether engaging in an argument is worth the effort.
2) Isolating self from others:
In challenging situations, some individuals opt to isolate themselves, believing it to be a solution to their problems. They feel restricted, thinking they can only engage with others when they are in a better state, leading them to ghost those around them. This behavior troubles those who genuinely care about them. This weakens the relationship and causes significant stress for their close ones. This behavior will leave everyone in darkness.
3) Too forgiving:
Imagine a scenario where someone constantly forgives others, even in situations where limits are consistently overstepped. While forgiveness is a good practice, still anything done in excess is not good. Strike a balance by understanding the significance of forgiveness, recognizing the need to maintain self-respect, and setting clear boundaries. Use forgiveness as a tool for personal growth, ensuring a balanced approach.
4) Asking for advice from everyone:
Ever seen someone facing a problem, and rather than trusting their instincts or knowledge, they turn to a multitude of advice? Some people instead of using their brains, like taking advice from everyone. They not only end up getting confused but lose a lot of time and energy in this process. Bits of Advice are good to listen to, but following blindly because you think they are best is not good. Learn to run your horses before taking any step further.
5) Manipulating people:
Some people have a habit of using others as a ladder to grow over time, they want you to act according to what they say so that, they can use you, and mold you in the way they want. Recognizing and distancing oneself from such manipulation is essential for maintaining healthy relationships, where mutual growth and respect are prioritized over self-serving agendas.
6) Self-centered behavior:
Living with someone who is only concerned with themselves and not others is difficult, it is like investing time and money in something that will never give any fruitful result. They have a strong belief about how perfect they are and how only their achievements matter. For instance, imagine asking someone to help and instead, they start comparing how they are in more trouble and facing more challenges than you, and you should be the one helping them.
7) No loyalty and honesty:
People pet dogs because they are loyal but when it comes to them for being loyal and honest, their legs start shaking, Loyalty and honesty are something that can never be undervalued. These qualities serve as the foundation. Loyalty creates a sense of security and reliability, knowing that someone has your back through thick and thin. On the other hand, honesty builds transparency and openness, fostering a genuine connection. Surrounding oneself with people who are disloyal and dishonest can spell disaster in the times ahead.
8) Expecting the same from others:
Some people imagine that others should put in the same effort as them, and when people don’t meet their expectations they get angry or frustrated. Can we have the same expectations? Yes, People can have the same expectations, but that doesn’t mean that they’ll be met. It’s crucial for individuals to regularly assess the reasonableness of their expectations, recognizing that each person operates with their capabilities and circumstances.
9) Not taking care of hygiene:
Imagine a scenario where you decide to wear the same socks for days, you might not notice any unpleasant odor, and the people around you may be silently enduring discomfort to spare your feelings, choosing not to mention it to avoid causing you any embarrassment or hurt. These may seem like minor habits, but they contribute to a larger picture of neglecting hygiene. Poor hygiene can make people distance themself from you and you might not even notice this before it is too late.
10) Being bias:
Ever seen some people who don’t act according to their knowledge but always look for self benefits? They will act biased in situations when their decisions could have a huge impact on someone’s life. This may be due to personal reasons, upbringing, beliefs, etc. Being biased is a survival instinct for many of them, so that they can survive in this world, but the harm biases can cause cannot be overlooked.
11) People pleaser:
Picture putting your trust in someone, expecting their support during tough times when you’re in the right but facing difficulties. However, this person you rely on ends up betraying your trust. Instead of standing by you, they opt for a neutral stance. This is done to avoid causing discomfort or tarnishing their image in the eyes of strangers. This scenario reflects the nature of people-pleasers, individuals constantly seeking approval by pleasing others.
Do you have any toxic traits like these?
Everyone can develop toxic habits, often rooted in a lack of knowledge or guidance. If you recognize any of the mentioned toxic traits in yourself, there’s no need to fret. Consider these habits that you can improve over time with conscious effort and positive changes. But for that, you will have to work on your personality, starting from today itself.
How to get rid of toxic traits?
Please read “Fix Toxic Traits: Transform for a Brighter Outlook, 10 ways“ on how to get rid of toxic traits. This is my most logical way of getting rid of any toxic traits.
