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Discover effective strategies to fix toxic traits within yourself and others in this informative article. Start your journey towards positive change now.
Grab your popcorn, it may not be a movie, but a worthwhile read that will clear your some concepts of life, After reading and implementing the provided tips, you’ll witness growth in your overall personality and will have better relationships with everyone. But, to achieve that, it’s crucial to know what toxic traits are and get rid of them.
What are toxic traits?
Behavior patterns or habits that people develop either due to their learning, experience, or upbringing over time, which causes harm to themselves and others whether knowingly or unknowingly. People having these behavior patterns might not notice them earlier until someone tells them about them or they lose everything due to their behavior. But there is always a ray of hope for betterment.
How to handle it?
Remember this, “Nobody is perfect”, but you can improve by finding the root cause of your behavior and uprooting them before they dig deep within, embedding in the brain and tightening their grip.
Find the source of your behavior patterns:
❓What triggers these traits?
❓How do they get started?
❓How others are suffering from your behaviors?
Tips to fix toxic traits in oneself:
📍Self-introspection is necessary: Learn your behavior patterns and habits; that will help you become better.
📍Set your expectations and limits: Establish clear limits to define personal and interpersonal expectations from others. You can expect from others, but it’s up to them whether they will meet them or not.
📍Accountability: “I am responsible for your actions.” Repeat this daily in your mind and build accountability for your own decisions. Whatever fruit you get is due to the seed sown by me.
📍Wear other shoes: Understand others’ perspectives and feelings by keeping yourself in their place and checking what their hardships are.
📍Use mistakes as a staircase: View setbacks as stepping stones to higher goals, using them to elevate yourself through continuous improvement.
📍Keep repeating positive affirmations: Affirmations will help you in the long term; just create some for yourself and keep repeating. Create some that are close to yourself; don’t copy them from others.
📍Be with people who matter: Engage with friends, family, or a therapist for guidance. They will surely help you become better by pointing out your flaws and giving you confidence by praising your achievements.
📍Give time to yourself: Have balance in your life; don’t chase others blindly; give yourself time. The solution to most of your problems is within yourself.
📍Keep improving with each passing day: Build a mindset that I need to improve with each passing day, that I will improve over time, and that I will be the best person my bloodline has ever received.
📍Be in a good circle: Choose relationships that uplift and inspire you to leave your comforts and become better. You don’t need a perfect circle, but just good enough for your betterment.
Fixing toxic traits in others:
You only have to send them this blog link to get them rid of toxic traits. 😊
Toxic traits are just some survival tactics that people build over time, they can change will little care and self-introspection, learn to embrace uniqueness, be positive, and keep rocking, you will surely improve over time.
Share your quirky toxic traits—let’s turn self-reflection into a fun confessional moment. 👇